There are two types of relations. One is Blood made relation, and another is Time made relation.
Blood made relations are like father, mother, sister, brother, cousin, grand parents and all(family members). This type of relation is constant one(no change in love, love forever), you love your father means, you love him from the day you were born till the day of your separation(death).
Time made relation are those which are dependent on time, like friendship. As time pass by, the relations becomes stronger or weaker, according to the separation (distance between the two friends ). But there are some relations which grow stronger, even if the distance between the two is high.
So it is necessary for the relation, whose strength(love for the person) goes on increasing regardless of the separation, just to end increasing the strength. One wants to shift that relation in constant one, to the loved one, blood made relation, letting the person to become a part of your family. So the question is, why to choose only husband and wife, why can't it be brother and sister or brother in law and sister in law. Don't you love your sister, don't you want to see her happy. Love is all about to wish to see the person you love, happy.
And the answer is, strength of that relation(love for the person) is so much increased that you don't just want to see her happy, you'll do anything to see her happy, you want to be with her always. And among the given relations, in family only husband and wife stays with each other.
As, this kind of relation was time made relation, I don't believe in love at first sight. [:D]
Well now a days, we should think for brother-brother relations also :P
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nice one ..shows u have perfectly observed your realtions with all in different conditions..at the last line you mentioned love at first sight is not possible ..but y love at first sight is not possible ???true love generates not through your mind or heart but through soul which needs no previous knowledge of your love. so definitely its possible .isnt??
ReplyDeleteUndoubtedly a nice BLOG but one thing in this i don agree with and that is u said FRIENDSHIP is TIME MADE RELATION... i think it can be BLOOD made also....
ReplyDeleteWhen kids starts becoming younger PARENTS try to become their freinds so that they can understand them better by seeing the world in their perspective.... by this they can have a better rapo between them...
Even brothers & sisters can be more close as friends coz u can say share anything with ur friends but not ofcourse with your family members but once they also bcome ur friend then u can b free with them also....
so remember this thing..
BUt once again u have written very wel..keep it up...good job ABHYUDAY...
Nice one.. But don't make friendship and other close relation so much time dependent.. Even it have to be time dependent then keep a constrain thar there should be only closeness and more love 4 each other. I know tis is not always possible. In general with each and every act of our friends we rate our friendship. In my view that is not friendship at all..Friendship is spontaneous increasing process it cant decrease with time even for a short while. If it is not so then that is just agreement not friendship, which may break after agreement period is over.
ReplyDeletewhoooh... quite thoughtful blog! About relationships in our life, what I feel is - it all depends on what you think of that person. We respect and love our parents and this doesn't have any constraints, no one tells us to do it but it's permanent no matter what happens.
ReplyDeleteAbout the other relations (as you have called time made relations) we select those. In a class of 70-100 students, we choose 5-10 of them as our friends based on the similarities we find in them. Again here, the relationship depends on both of them. If 2 friends respect and trust each other this relationship also becomes permanent irrespective of the distance between friends....